Marriage

Preliminary Arrangements

At St. James Episcopal Church, we believe marriage is a sacred covenant, a public witness of love and faithfulness, and a lifelong commitment undertaken with God’s blessing. Whether for longtime members or those new to our community, we welcome couples — including same-sex couples — to explore celebrating their marriage in our parish.

Scheduling & Preparation
Only the Rector or Priest-in-Charge can schedule a wedding at St. James. We require at least 90 days’ notice. Please meet with the priest before setting a date or booking reception venues. This meeting will cover your wedding date, the pre-marital counseling process, and other important details.

We do not schedule weddings during these times:

Thanksgiving weekend
The Twelve Days of Christmas
Easter weekend
Memorial Day weekend
Labor Day weekend
Fourth of July weekend
The season of Lent (dates vary each year)

Who May Be Married Here

At least one member of the couple must be an active, baptized member of St. James, or the child of an active member (active = regular worship attendance and financial support for at least one year).
Members of other Episcopal churches are welcome to inquire; clergy from those parishes may assist, but St. James clergy must be present.
Non-local couples must complete pre-marital counseling with an Episcopal priest or certified counselor in their own area, with a report provided to our priest.

Fees
For non-members: $500
(refundable up to six months before the wedding);
50% refund up to three months before;
no refund after that).
If renting the church for use by another congregation or clergy: $400,
and the same refund policy applies.